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Back to black & white era

By Jesbin Sam Mathew


Love, one of the strongest and most enduring human emotions, has the power to conquer all geographical and cultural barriers and make our world so magical. Even though love's unblemished purity cannot be touched, the way that we express it has changed significantly. You know what? Our history has seen plenty of unfulfilled love as well as those who were willing to give their lives for the one they loved. I have always been fascinated by how romantic communication changes over time. It's best that I start with what my grandmother thought: during our age, girls in particular are bound by societal expectations and cultural norms, and she always says that boundaries always make things wider. So the youth always find new ways to express their love for their loved ones. Nowadays, meeting somebody or getting in touch with them is not an issue at all. If we want to communicate with someone, we can do it in seconds with the help of technology. Facebook, Instagram, WhatsApp, SnapChat, etc. allow us to get in touch with them whenever we want. These days, dating-specific applications like Tinder are popular.

But, in the old era, they used different methods like love letters, tape recordings, stories, poems, etc.


Love Letter-Writing tender love letters was a common way to convey feelings of affection and devotion. On paper, people would pour out their souls, revealing their deepest emotions and longing for those they loved.

  • Poetry and Songs-The intensity of feelings one felt for their lover is shown through songs and poems

  • Tape Records- Because of restrictions, loving people occasionally do not have the opportunity to meet. However, they still want to express their affections to one another, so they record their voices and save the recording.

  • Symbols and gestures-To keep their discussion private from outsiders

When I heard this stuff from my grandmother, I was so fascinated by what a romance yaar……..

This motivated me to write poems and trust me this makes you something so special.In my opinion try to take a different path in your dating life and make your love so divine.



Here is the one that I try to explain about my romance and I know its not complete,but don't afraid to start by thinking about how it ends.

I've learned that when we feel something for someone, we should just follow our heart, If we do that, our words will follow along with our thoughts, leading us to the shores of love and happiness.

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